The Long and Hard Road.

We all want to listen to what we want to hear. For example your hanging out with your friends Billy, Bob, Britney.  Billy says, " hey, you look great, have you lost some weight?" Bob says,"are you joking your getting kind of fat", Lastly Britney says, "No, No, your fine the way you look." The question is who's right Bob, Britney or Billy? Well, the answer is infinite and as shocking as that is, your wondering how is that possible. It depends on the person. Like for me, I'm a person who would take everyones answer to consideration. I would probably weigh myself, check my bmi, look in the mirror and so on. But the thing is Bob, Britney,Billy they could be saying it for different motives or agendas. Maybe Billy likes you. Maybe Britney is just really nice and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Maybe Bob is just an asshole. The thing is no one really decides the outcome except yourself. We listen to what we want to hear and act accordingly. I don't know how many times I have told a girl, what a dude is probably thinking and she still does it anyway. At the same time, I remember how much advice I have gotten but totally didn't care to listen to it. What I'm trying to imply is, regardless of what we pick or choose, it's an outcome that we deserve. We really can't blame anyone except ourselves for listening to someone else and not yourself. Whether it be a pretty girl telling you that see-through shirts are totally in. Or a very unattractive person telling you that eating too much would probably kill you. We do what we want. But I guess another point is, don't trust everything someone says. I'm going to be honest, the stuff that comes out of my mouth sometimes is about 30 percent bullshit and 70 percent truth. But I am not going to filter what I say and if you believe everything I say, shame on you for not doing your research. As much trust as you have with someone, you really can't rely on answers that aren't your own. It's like going to school and hoping the stuff the teacher teaches you is completely true. For example Pluto...We all thought is was a planet but our teachers lied to us. Well anyone born before the 2000's anyway. I guess I'll conclude with answers aren't found without seeking but bullshit is everywhere. We are all liars because we lie for our own benefit. So if you can tell a white lie to someone why can't they do the same back. When it comes to life there really are two roads. Theres the road that is long and hard pun intended. And theres the road that seems short and simple but is actually long and hard. When you take short cuts in life it only hurts you more when you realized you had nothing at all. So be aware of who you are ask for advice from everyone and figure out who's real or fake. Get rid of those who are in your life for the wrong reason and keep those that are there for your interest. Your life isn't meant for someone else and if it was than, what is the difference between you and a slave. So decide your battles and fight for yourself. There will always be 10 haters and 1 admirer. Drop the haters and keep the admirers simply said.